Paradoxical life- dont chose!

Suffering is part of life. But you can become aware; then suffering happens around you, but dont happens to you. But then happiness also dont happen to you. Both will not happen to you. They will happen around, just on the periphery & you will be centre in yourself. You will see them happening, they will happen around you , they will not happen to you.

This only happens if you dont choose. That's why it's delicate, subtle. Because of the paradoxical life, you choose happiness & you fall in suffering. The more you try to escape, the more it's being invited.. It's almost like the ultimate law, whatever you choose the opposite will be your fate.

So dont choose at all. Then nothing can happen to you, everything is a flux except you. this has to be understood very deeply.

What bliss is?

So if you don't choose, if you remain alert & aware that this is how life is, days & nights will pass.Happiness, sadness, suffering happiness you just take it. There is no clinging to happiness & no escaping from suffering. You remain in yourself- centred, rooted. This is what bliss is.

So bliss is not opposite from suffering. Suffering is part of life. It  cease only when you completely disappear from the body. When there is no birth, suffering ceases. When you are lost in the totality, then you are no more- a drop just fallen into the ocean & is no more.

Suffering gives you depth

A person who has not suffer will always remain on the surface. Suffering gives you depth. . Really if there's no suffering you'll be nothing just a boring phenomenon. Suffering give you tone, a keenness. A quality comes to you only suffering can give, which no happiness can.

You need both. The more you move in opposites, the higher & deeper you evolve. Life exist between both a a very delicate tension, A subtle tension

A person who has not suffered has no tone, no depth, no heart. The heart is created through suffering; through pain we evolve. Similarly for one who only suffers, there's nothing, he only exist, there's no song in the heart , no poetry, no hope. He will settle down to his pessimistic existence. There will be no struggle, no adventure. He will be stagnant- a stagnant pool of consciousness- by & by he'll become unconscious. That's why when there's too much pain you fall unconscious.